Fight with your loneliness and utilize your loneliness to bring awesomeness in you.

My Dear Reader

I every time write to help to lead happy life. This I have made best efforts to make life easy. You are going to read how loneliness start helping you to be splendid. You will learn to utilize your loneliness to bring awesomeness in you.

Students take admission in new school or college. They have to suffer a lot as they are left alone if they don’t join their friends in their bad habits like drinking, smoking and so on. Fear of being left alone students join and adapt those habits. They regret years after. 

People sometimes join their job with their own principles which cause them loneliness in company. 

Awesome Loneliness:  You must not adapt bad habit for this if you are left alone, you become awesome. Dare to say I don’t smoke and I will not smoke when you are offered to smoke. This is your value not to consume alcohol. I am sure your friends will not like this and may leave you alone or you may leave them because of their bad habit. Why do you leave them? You batter stay with them and prove your values. See how awesome you are, “although you are with those who drink, smoke and etc. yet you don’t. You should never do for what you have regret late on.

 In case you are left alone you must develop your skills and bring improve within yourself. Your skills will work like magnet and will get your friends back.


Alone after break up gives you time to think to move on.

“Loneliness and feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty.” Mother Teresa

Mother Teresa said, “Feeling comes itself because you think.”  You never catch lonely feeling if you enjoy your own company. You are the best friend of yourself.  Utilize your time and introspect yourself. Introspection is best exercise man can do to improve. Manjhi(the Mountain man) Created history alone. Steve Jobs alone became father of technology. 

 Loneliness takes you in the world of internet where you learn new things which become your strength if you don’t be addicted to Social networking sites. Addiction of Social networking sites is more dangerous than drugs. Sites are fruitful if you don’t spend addiction time( swad or chaske ka time).

Student was sitting alone and working was asked by a teacher why don’t you join your friend. He replied, “They force me to join their habit also if I join them so I am alone making plan to be busy.” And see he came back with dealership of Coalgate in his city. He started earning because of loneliness.


Be happy being alone and use time fruitfully.

Wish you happy loneliness ahead if you be anytime!!!!!!!!!

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Pankaj Asija

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  • Gautam jain
    Posted at 05:17h, 11 August

    Its very useful for me. Thank you sir

    • Pankaj Asija
      Posted at 06:26h, 13 August

      useful for everyone

  • Anil Kumar
    Posted at 05:51h, 11 August

    Good morning sir, It is a very good article you have written. What you mentioned here is truth of society. People ignore if somebody does not join their company either good or bad. You have given examples to utilize lonely ness time to become great. Thanks for writing.

    • Pankaj Asija
      Posted at 06:25h, 13 August

      I m thankful to you to motivate me to write through your comments.

  • Pardeep Kumar
    Posted at 05:55h, 11 August

    It’s my pleasure to be a part of PSEL family . Pankaj Sir your thoughts are wonderful .
    They makes a man that they want be. So I glad and also thanks to you to make me a man that like I want to became….

    • Pankaj Asija
      Posted at 06:23h, 13 August

      thank you very much Pardeep. these comments are very much essential for me

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  • Bhawna Rohilla
    Posted at 17:44h, 11 August

    Yes, its our choice how to transform a situation and turn that negative into positive.
    Great article sir…because great thoughts come from great people like you.

    • Pankaj Asija
      Posted at 06:22h, 13 August

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    Posted at 04:32h, 16 August

    Very nice sir

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    Posted at 15:25h, 26 August

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